Reading List
For information on the role you play in the success of your relationships:
- Lerner, Harriet. 1989. The Dance of Intimacy. New York: Harper Perennial.
- Lerner, Harriet. 1997. The Dance of Anger. New York: Harper Paperbacks.
- Lerner, Harriet 1994. The Dance of Deception. New York: Harper Perennial.
For information on understanding what is involved in communication, what we really communicate, and how to improve your communication skills:
- Lerner, Harriet. 2001. The Dance of Connection. New York: Harper Collins.
- Tannen, Deborah. 2002. I Only Say This Because I Love You. NewYork: Ballantine Books.
To learn more about rekindling and revitalizing your relationship and protecting it from divorce:
- Love, Patricia. 2001. The Truth About Love. New York: Fireside.
- Love, Patricia and Robinson, Jo. 1994. Hot Monogamy. New York: Plume.
- Harley, Willard F., Jr. 1988. Marriage Insurance. Grand Rapids, MI: Fleming H. Revell, Co.
- Doherty, William J. 2001. Take Back Your Marriage. New York: Guilford Press.
- Shectman, Morrie and Shectman, Arleah. 2003. Love in the Present Tense: How to Have a High Intimacy, Low Maintenance Marriage. Boulder, CO: Bull Publishing
If you are considering divorce:
- Raffel, Lee. 1999. Should I Stay or Go? Chicago: Contemporary Books.
- Weiner Davis, Michelle. 2001. The Divorce Remedy. New York: Simon & Schuster Paperbooks.
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